What is one thing you love about where you live?

Everyone has that tiny corner coffee shop that they adore. Find out about his favorite local spots and offer to check them out together when you’re next available.

Would you rather have another 10 years with your partner or a one-night stand with your celebrity crush?

It’s unlikely that any guy would say they’d trade you in for a celebrity, so keep this conversation lighthearted and fun! However, remember that celebrity hall passes exist for a reason!

What’s your kinkiest turn-on?

He may be very vanilla in the bedroom. However, if he’s not, then take the opportunity to ask about his kinkiest turn-on that will spice things up. Sexual compatibility is key for any good relationship, so don’t be afraid to push your conversations and find out what he likes.

What was your best drop-the-mic moment?

Is there a time when he called out bad behavior at work or stood up for a stranger at the local coffee shop? Whatever it is, he’s sure to be proud of his triumph over negativity.

If you had three wishes, what would they be?

Asking what someone would wish for if they could have anything in the world tells you a lot about their priorities. If he says he’d end world hunger, strive for peace, and give the final wish to his folks, you’ll know you have a stand-up guy on your hands.

What was your favorite cartoon as a kid?

Talking about your childhood memories is a great way to break the ice. Your nostalgic conversation should lead nicely into talking about your experiences growing up and how they shaped you as people.

Is there a song that always brings up old memories for you?

If a guy unashamedly listened to Carrie Underwood’s “Before He Cheats” after a bad breakup, then you can both laugh about this for days on end. However, as songs are a powerful way for us to connect to specific moments from the past, he may well have a song that speaks to his sensitive nature differently.