What guys often fear most about talking to strange girls at parties is the R word—rejection.

What each of us has to realize is that if someone doesn’t respond positively to our overtures, it’s actually not a statement of our intrinsic worth. It doesn’t harm us in any way. It doesn’t actually lessen our value. The best way to cope with a fear of rejection is to face it squarely. If a woman responds negatively or neutrally to you, don’t sweat it.

Let them feel the way they do, and move on to your next conversation partner. When you internalize a negative response, what you’re doing is giving that person control over you. You’re handing them your personal power, and that’s not okay. Keep it. When a woman doesn’t seem interested in talking to you, break off the conversation courteously and walk away. It’s not your loss. It’s hers.

As you become more fluent with social interaction at parties, you’ll find that invitations will increase in number. One of the most desirable kinds of party guests is someone who keeps it light, who has a good time and contributes to the positive energy of the gathering.

Just remember that women you talk to at parties will likely cross paths with you again, so keep your nose clean, remain respectful of yourself and your conversation partners, and set aside your intensity. If you further your acquaintance, there will be plenty of time to introduce a woman to the deeper or more serious aspects of your personality.

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