One of the best ways to get to know your new girlfriend is by asking questions. In fact, asking questions is the best way to find out more information about anything or anyone, especially when it comes to a relationship. Good communication is essential if you want things to work out. It is the only way you can understand her wants and needs. This is particularly true when it comes to sex questions to ask a girl.

We men often think we know everything when it comes to getting it on, but many of us are actually clueless when it comes to knowing what women really want. Just because you have watched a few pornos doesn’t make you an expert on sex. That is why discussing lovemaking with your partner is a must if you want to improve the sex and make sure she is having as much fun as you are.

“Talking about what you want is just the start,” Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., sexologist, relationship expert, and We-Vibe sex expert told Shape. “If you dig a little deeper and talk about your fantasies, desires, fears, vulnerabilities, concerns, emotions, and more, you’ll develop a deeper understanding of one another—which leads to a more meaningful connection and hotter, more fulfilling sex.”

Asking your girlfriend questions about her kinks and fantasies is the best way to explore each other’s sexuality. Also, discuss boundaries and consent to make sure you are on the right page with what is and isn’t ok in the bedroom. Being open and honest is the only way you will truly be able to know what each other wants.

To help you get started on your sexual journey, we have come up with 101 sexy, kinky, and downright dirty questions to help you find out more about each other’s sexual preferences.

The Top 101 Dirty and Kinky Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

1. What’s your dirtiest sexual fantasy?
2. What’s the most reliable way for you to orgasm with a partner?
3. Where’s the weirdest place you’ve had sex?
4. What do you enjoy most when I go down on you?
5. Do you enjoy having sex in public?
6. What’s your favorite part of my body?
7. Have you ever had anal sex, and if not, are you willing to try?
8. If you could choose what I was wearing right now, what would you choose?
9. What do you fantasize about when you masturbate?
10. Do you watch porn, and if so, would you watch it together?
11. What kind of porn do you watch?
12. Is there a favorite place on your body you like to be touched?
13. Have you ever had a threesome, and if not, are you willing to try?
14. When was the last time you had a dirty dream?
15. When did you lose your virginity?
16. Do you enjoy dirty talk?
17. Are you a squirter?
18. Have you ever been caught having sex?
19. Do you use a vibrator?
20. What is your favorite sex position?
21. What is one sexual act you have never done but want to try?
22. Do you enjoy role-playing?
23. Have you ever sent nudes?
24. Have you ever made a sex tape?
25. What is the strangest object you have used to get off?
26. Have you had multiple sexual partners on the same day?
27. How often do you masturbate?
28. Do you prefer to be dominant or submissive?
29. Have you ever eaten ass?
30. What is your best sexual experience that doesn’t involve me?
31. What is the most sex you have had in one day?
32. Have you ever used food during sex?
33. What is your biggest turn-on in the bedroom?
34. What is your biggest turn-off in the bedroom?
35. Do you have any fetishes?
36. Are you into BDSM?
37. Are you dominant or submissive?
38. Do you like to be spanked?
39. What is your favorite sex toy?
40. Have you ever read erotic fiction?
41. Have you joined the mile high club?
42. What is the favorite part of your body to be kissed?
43. Have you used wax in the bedroom?
44. Do you like swallowing my cum?
45. Where is the weirdest place you have masturbated?
46. If I ever caught you masturbating, would you stop or would you finish?
47. Do you fantasize about other people when we have sex?
48.  Do you prefer morning or night sex?
49. How many times a day would you like to have sex?
50. Do you prefer quick or marathon sessions?
51. Do you like sexting?
52. Would you let me give you a facial?
53. Do you like nipple play?
54. Would you like an erotic massage?
55. Do you like being tied up during sex?
56. How much eye contact do you like during sex?
57. Do you like shower sex?
58. Do you prefer rough or gentle sex?
59. Have you ever had sex at work?
60. Do you like your hair pulled during sex?
61. Where would you prefer me to ejaculate?
62. What is the most overrated sex position?
63. What names do you like to be called during sex?
64. Do you like watching other people having sex?
65. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve thought about while touching yourself?
66. Do you like being watched while having sex?
67. Have you ever used handcuffs during sex?
68. Do you like being choked during sex?
69. If you could have sex with any famous person, dead or alive, who would it be?
70. Would you have sex on camera for money?
71. How do you feel about swinging?
72. Have you ever been blindfolded during sex?
73. Would you ever go to a sex party?
74. Do you enjoy dressing up in the bedroom?
75. Have you ever had sex with a complete stranger?
76. Have you fantasized about any of my friends?
77. What is your most embarrassing sex story?
78. Have you ever played strip poker?
79. Do you like wearing lingerie?
80. Do you like watching me masturbate?
81. Have you ever given a foot job, and if not, would you?
82. Do you like your toes being sucked?
83. What is your favorite thing about foreplay?
84. Have you ever kissed another woman?
85. Have you ever had sex with another woman?
86. Do you prefer big, standard, or small dicks?
87. What are your thoughts on double penetration?
88. Do you prefer to give or receive?
89. What is the longest you have gone without having sex?
90. Have you ever been caught having sex, and if so, did you stop or keep going?
91. What age was the oldest person you have slept with?
92. What age was the youngest person you have slept with?
93. Can you cum just by vaginal penetration or do you need clitoris stimulation?
94. Do you like biting?
95. What adult toys have you tried?
96. Would you try pegging?
97. Do you sleep naked?
98. What is your sexiest outfit?
99. Would you let me watch you have sex with another man?
100. Would you watch me have sex with another woman?
101. Do you remember your best orgasm?

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