Women love a confident man. It doesn’t matter whether you are her hot date for the evening or the guy who works in the gas station she always stops by. Confidence attracts women. If you know how to be a confident man in a relationship you are already halfway towards a long and loving partnership. If you don’t believe me, a study found self-confidence as one of the biggest turn-ons for women. You can’t argue with science.

Being confident shows you are happy with who you are. You are steadfast in your beliefs and make choices that are beneficial for your life moving forward. Being confident in a relationship is a big part of being a successful boyfriend and partner. Your confidence will rub off on your partner and she will feel like you and her can do anything together. You can take the world by the balls and conquer it as a couple.

Sadly not all men are filled with confidence in a relationship. Some may have never been confident in the first place, while others may have lost that initial spark of self-assurance that helped them win over their loved one at the beginning. It can be a tough time struggling with your confidence, as you will become more self-conscious and find yourself worrying about silly things concerning you personally along with things about your relationship.

There is no magic wave you can wand that will make you a confident man. You have to look within yourself and find your inner beauty and strength and then use that to take on the world in a positive manner. If you are grappling with this, there are several things you can do to help you become more of a confident man in your relationship.

1. Be Happy In Yourself

You can’t be confident if you don’t feel good about yourself and who you are. Are you happy with the person you are? If yes, then you are well on your way to being a confident fella. If you suffer from low self-esteem or are struggling with your identity and who you are, take a step back and reassess things. Feeling like this will not only impact you as an individual but also your relationship. No doubt your partner will be able to tell if you are struggling and if you don’t talk about things, this could lead to other problems in your relationship.