Some guys lounge around the bar area all night criticizing the other men in the bar, they don’t get women and they remain spectators to the game. On the other hand, there are plenty of guys out there looking to improve their chances when it comes to picking up women, and when they take a second to master it, they get what they want.

Most of the men who take the opportunity to do so are normal guys, they are fun to hang around, and they are average or above-average in appearance. The important thing to understand is anyone can do this, and that it’s not a matter of whether or not you “look good”.

Gorgeous women should firstly become nothing in your book; they understand the value of their beauty and are surprisingly easier to work with. Women who are less attractive are harder to attract because they don’t have a superior sense of beauty, they feel they must protect their ego at all costs. In return you’ll find that these lesser-attractive women are more oversensitive to what you say to them.

To start the night approach mid-range girls to build your momentum, you’ll want to condition your brain to understand that in these surroundings you approach women, and that you don’t have to try overly hard at it. If in the beginning if your plan doesn’t go accordingly and you find yourself getting shutdown early do not associate this for the rest of the night. You need to focus on continuing the process, realize it’s essentially a numbers game, and at some point in the night things will go your way.

The process of getting rejected shouldn’t affect your state of mind, find a way to make yourself laugh and keep it out of your head. Another thing to remember is that just because a girl is speaking with another guy doesn’t mean you should avoid talking to her. Think of it as a competition with your goal to win, and build on your determination to attract her.