When it comes to texting your crush, start the conversation with the basics and don’t overthink everything. Talking and flirting over text with a guy or girl doesn’t have to be scary. If you’re funny and witty with your friends, take the same approach to having a conversation with someone you like. Interesting topics and good questions can be an easy way to chat via text or over the phone.

Just remember to be yourself and don’t try to be the person you think your crush will like. There will always be someone out there who will appreciate the person that you are and love you for being you.

What To Talk About With Your Crush

• Simple conversation starters can help you begin talking and learning about this guy or girl you like.
• When talking to your crush, focus on interesting and fun topics that will allow you to be funny and flirty.
• The best questions to ask are ones that allow your crush to talk about themselves and give you an opportunity to get to know them.
• If you want to ask deep questions, you’ll need to wait until you’ve developed some rapport to avoid coming on too strong.
• Open communication and good conversation create the foundation for meaningful relationships.
• You’ll want to talk about and do different things on the phone, over text, or on FaceTime.