Back to Tinder, how can you say you have a match and want to enjoy the thrill of that experience without addressing the lady by her name? Imagine if someone hit you up with a chat and after the first two lines still fail to address you with your name? Unless you don’t care about people using your name online, you will be bothered about it.

But this is not about you: this is about a generally accepted rule, and on Tinder, you will make an excellent first impression if you used her name when chatting for the first time.

5. Use Hints on the Bio for Talking Points

One of Tinder platforms’ most notable features is the bio aspect, which provides insight into the person’s personality. This feature on Tinder is handy when considering how to send your first message, so use it wisely.

When you observe a person’s bio, look out for those tiny details that give away information about them, which can be incorporated into your first message. When a person reads a chat with such information, it speaks of your intentionality and consideration for their interests, which means you are someone to have in their corner.

For example, if you look at Jill’s profile, you will see her profile picture first, but don’t look at it passively as it can tell you about her. Is she sitting out in nature? Did she take the photo while hiking? If the picture reflects her hiking, then it means she enjoys the outdoors.

Do you think she has a lovely smiling (if she is smiling)? Does she look like a delightful person? Please take note of these details because they will come in handy when writing your first comment. Next, look at the details below the image, you will find her name and age but then look further down.

Below the photo, name, and age, you will find more details about her, such as her likes and interests. While some bios are short, others are longer, but you can get personalized information regardless of the length. So, let’s say Jill writes: