Instead build a solid foundation in which you can support yourself during times of defeat. In order to conquer or achieve victory in the future, you must be willing to accept yourself before taking the next foot forward.

6. Plan Everyday To Be A Winner

Refuse to wake up every morning with a negative outlook on life or for the day. Create a mental vision that you will be successful and achieve true happiness. Train your brain to believe only positive things will come in the future, and you’ll be driven towards triumph.

Make a mental note or write down your goals on a notepad and put them somewhere you can never pass them by without glancing at them. Use this as a constant reminder of what you’re working towards and why you will achieve it.

7. Serve Others With Act Of Kindness

Be willing to lend a hand to your neighbor and volunteer your time and resources to benefit the greater good. Commit to making an impact on the world regardless of how big or small it may appear.

Accept the reality of receiving no recognition, but perform acts of kindness from the heart. Remember that you will get everything you want in life, but only if you help others get what they want.

8. Be A Man Of Your Word

Learn to say no when it’s appropriate, and commit yourself to always keeping your word when you say yes. Regardless of the length of time, hold your word as a bond that can never be forgotten until it is fulfilled.

Be willing to stand up for yourself if you deem a task is too overbearing or sacrifices your dignity. Determine a judgment on your own, but at the same time take into consideration other people before making a response. Should you ever be uncomfortable answering a question, remember it is always better to be reserved than to say too much.

9. Avoid Falling In Love Too Hastily

As younger men we were once mesmerized by the thought of love, but after time we learned to understand its true purpose. Women can be deceiving, just as men can be, but you must always remember that never let love become your foundation in life.