Some of us wear ties to work everyday. Others only don such formal accessories for special occasions like weddings, funerals, graduations, induction into the Illuminati, etc. And some men don’t even own a necktie.

Regardless of which group you fall in to, you should know how to tie a tie (and how to tie a bow tie). And this requires an understanding of the basic methods. For example, the famous Windsor Knot, the Half Windsor, the Bow Tie and, the short man’s secret weapon, the Four In Hand Knot.

This is a simple, tight, narrow knot that is perfect for smaller gents because its form creates an elongating effect on the neck, thus increasing perceived height.

Using this knot with a high quality tie cut from thick material will work very well for short men. I recommend going with a slim tie, especially if you are slender or have an athletic build. If you are the short and stocky type, don’t wear skinny ties. They won’t make you look skinny (just the opposite, in fact).

If you want to learn how to tie the Four In Hand Knot, check out this video tutorial:

I personally like Penguin ties because they’re very reasonably priced, and they’re slim but not skinny (the skinny tie thing has gone too far).

Now you know about the best kind of knot for short(er) men, but I guarantee you have (or will) run into the problem of the tie being too long. You can address and avoid this two ways:

1. Buy Shorter Ties

Ties come in different sizes. Just as you can find slim ties and fat ties, you can also find longer and shorter ones. Try to buy shorter ones in the future.

2. Hide the Excess

If you already have a bunch of ties and aren’t sure how to deal with the excess length, pay attention. You should never wear your tie too long just to make sure the skinny end doesn’t go past the fat end. Instead, tie your tie so the fat end stops right around your belt line.