It may be a tough read for those who have suffered infidelity in a relationship, but Perel writes in a way that’s neither demeaning nor self-righteous. Having worked with hundreds of couples who have experienced cheating, she understands how to frame her words in a way that not only makes sense but can help you get through such an event.

She believes an affair doesn’t have to mean the end of a relationship and can be the reawakening of two people’s love for each other. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.

7. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman – Ian Kerner

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The title of this book should provide you with all the information you need to know. As men, we often think we know what we are doing in the bedroom, but sadly this isn’t always the case. Getting your sex education from Pornhub doesn’t make you a sexual Adonis.

Ian Kerner wants to fix this by making men understand how to pleasure their partners, with this handy guide to oral sex a must for anyone struggling in that department. Even those who think they know what they are doing will learn some handy tips to help them on their quest to becoming a better lover. While it might not make you a master cunnalinguist, you will have a better understanding of how to pleasure your lady friend.

8. Modern Romance: An Investigation – Aziz Ansari

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This isn’t as much a self-help book as an overview of modern relationships and how the abundance of choices we have makes it harder to settle down. Written by comedian Aziz Ansari and American sociologist and New York University professor Eric Klinenberg, this intriguing book is a mix of comedy and science that will have you questioning your relationship choices with a wry smile.