Welcome to the modern world of dating. Whether you love it or loathe it, there’s no escaping dating apps. Saying you met someone on tinder used to be full of shame. A dirty secret. We’d read bios saying men were willing to lie about how we met like it’s a huge turn-on and a reason to swipe right (FYI – it isn’t. It translates to “I’m comfortable with lying”). But as the new norm, saying you’re not on Tinder as a singleton is even more shameful.

Despite its previous reputation for hookups, it’s now also used by many women who want a serious relationship. A global pandemic has managed to change a lot of things, even the minds of those who swore they’d never use it. How else are we meant to date without leaving the house after all? With its location setting, you’re not limited to the woman you see at your local supermarket every week.

With the number of success stories at an all-time high, we predict Tinder is here to stay post covid and we’re here to help you get closer to your own happy ending. Or a first date at the very least.

1. No more cheesy chat-up lines. We’re begging you

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As harmless as it seems, nothing good tends to happen from a cheesy chat-up line. You may be a perfectly normal guy that just doesn’t take life too seriously (women love this). But you’re more than likely to be unmatched. Immediately. And you’ll never get a chance to show that side of you.

Instead, have a look at their profile for conversation starters. Chances are they’ve given you hints. You just need to know how to work with them. Look for things you have in common. If most of her pictures are taken abroad, she clearly likes to travel.

Start by saying you also enjoy exploring and your favorite place that you’ve been to so far. Then ask her where the best place she’s been to is and suddenly you’re bonding over traveling experiences.