Communicating is also important if you are not interested. Whether it’s a first date, a one-night stand, or you’ve been hanging out for a few months, if you want things to end then tell her. Don’t ghost and leave her unsure of where she stands. Be a man and tell her the truth. She’ll respect you more, even if it’s not what she wants to hear.

10. Be Open and Vulnerable

When you meet someone for the first time the conversation often starts off rudimentarily. Small talk is natural when you are meeting someone for the first time, but it doesn’t have to be two hours of talking about the weather. Be open and willing to talk about anything.

If the conversation goes in the direction of exs or personal issues, don’t be afraid to discuss these things. She will appreciate your honesty and vulnerability and understand you are a man who isn’t afraid to talk about tough issues or share your emotions. It will also allow you to form a deeper connection from the get-go and give her more reasons to want a second date.

11. Don’t Rely on Dating Apps

Remember when you would go up to someone in a bar and try to chat them up? Well, considering how the pandemic has impacted the world, you might actually not. But as things are beginning to open up and return to some semblance of normal, you can meet people the old fashioned way.

Don’t rely on apps to find your life partner. While it was a great way to connect with people when we were trapped inside and couldn’t go to the pub, now you can get out and about and meet real people in the real world. While you might be out of practice, don’t let that stop you from chatting to the cute girl at your local cafe. Even if it doesn’t go to plan, it’s a great way to practice your communication skills and improve your confidence.

12. Try Dating Someone Your Own Age