13. Try Morning Sex

You might be half-asleep to begin with, but morning sex is a great way to get the body up and running. It is similar to a mini workout that will have you fighting fit for the day. For many couples, especially those with kids, finding the time to have sex can be a nightmare. After working all day and then coming home to the kids, by the time you are ready for bed you are most likely exhausted. So give morning sex a try. It doesn’t have to be in the bed either. Try having a quickie in the shower. At least you can kill two birds with one stone. 

14. Enjoy the Quickie

Speaking of the quickie, engage in them more often. While sex is always better when you can focus on your partner’s body, sometimes you just don’t have the time. Having a quickie is a great way to temper your libido and keep the sexual energy flowing. A quickie is like a greatest hits where you aim to get your partner off as fast as. possible.

“Go straight for what they like,” Jonathon Bennett, dating and relationship coach and owner of The Popular Man told Fatherly. “Discover what gets your partner extra hot and bothered and do it immediately. Don’t waste time! You can save the other stuff for when you’re not in a hurry.”

15. Set the Scene

Sometimes the ambiance can play a big role in getting your partner ready for some sexy times. Create a romantic space that includes light music, candles, a glass of wine, or whatever gets your partner in the mood. This can help relax her and stimulate her at the same time. Also, a little bit of romance never goes astray when it comes to getting your lady turned on.

16. Talk Dirty

Talking dirty is a very underrated sexual component that can turn mundane sex into something spectacular. Don’t be embarrassed about saying a few nasty things to your partner, as long as you don’t go over the top or talk about the panties her mother laid out for her. Dirty talk can be a sexy way to let your partner know what you want to do to them or a way to assert your dominance.