One-Night Stand Etiquette: The Do's And Don'ts
5. “Do have a one-night stand if you haven’t had romance in a very long time. Your life isn’t over, and you’ve still got a heartbeat! Let it pound for one night.” You deserve to feel alive and having a one-night stand with a complete stranger will give you an exciting thrill that’ll put you on a high for days.
“Physician Maria divorced her husband after 12 years of marriage. Then, at a coffee shop, she stood behind a hot construction worker. When their eyes locked, she felt pulsating desire, and so did he. That night saw passion Maria had not experienced in a very long time. After that, she was ready to date again.” It might just give you the kick you need to get back into dating.
6. Do treat her with respect. Just because she’s willing to go home with you after meeting you that night, doesn’t give you the green light to treat her any less than you would a woman with a three-date rule. She’s still a human being and deserves to be treated like one. Open doors, help her get undressed, and thank her for a good time.
7. Do let her know that a night of fun is all you’re after right now. You don’t want her to believe it’s something it isn’t and mislead her into sleeping with you. To have a successful one-night stand, you should both be aware that that’s exactly what it is. Otherwise, it’s just called you leading a woman on and never speaking to her again.
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Don’ts
1. “Don’t have a one-night stand if you believe in sex only in marriage,” says Dr. Carle. Don’t let your penis sway your values. If you’ve always believed in sex after marriage, stick to it.
“Paul was religious, and he wanted to maintain his no-sex-before-marriage belief. His friends acted like alley cats, sleeping around without strings. He just couldn’t imagine doing the same. At his church one Sunday, he sat next to a beautiful woman he had never met. They exchanged glances, and he asked her to lunch afterward. They both felt the same about remaining true to their faith. Today they are married.” Moral of the story? Keeping it in your pants may be your way to happily ever after.