How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone – Why She's Not Into You Romantically

It’s like the guy who thinks he can sleep with a woman just because he bought her dinner. Or the man who thinks that sending her flowers or buying her clothes is going to make him instantly attractive in her eyes magically. It’s not!

The reality is, when most men try to change, they become Mr. Nice Guy. They attempt to please her into giving into what they personally want. A significant number of women will only end up taking advantage of that situation.

Let’s face it, what woman doesn’t love good company, free dinners, movies, wine, gifts, clothes, compliments, dates and so on? All with no catch! And at the end of the night, she can call over Chad, a real alpha male who isn’t a Mr. Nice, to do finish up the dirty work*. (Of course, some will and some won’t*)

If she’s asking you for dating advice, doesn’t shave before dates, asks to be set up with your friends, doesn’t touch or flirt with you, or any of the oblivious indicators, you’re in friend zone territory.

For some you, you need to hear her say things like, “We’re just friends?” or “I don’t want to give you the wrong impression.” etc. If you’re unsure about it, there’s really only one way to stop shooting yourself in the foot.

3. Be Direct and Initiate.

Just because you assume you’re friend-zoned doesn’t always mean you just stop taking action. Have the balls to actually find out. Some women are simply shy, don’t sleep on the first date, or are introverts. Others aren’t really flirty or in your face about it. But when you take action, women can surprise the hell out you.

Remember, there are all sorts of different types of women out. Even the quietest of them all can be major freaks if you would just initiate and give them a reason to be bold. Understand that physical contact is what separates friends from partners.

Friends, family, and co-workers talk. When you tease and touch, you take things to the next level. It requires risk, something that, unfortunately, many men are afraid to accept. One way or another, you must find out. If the answer is crystal f-cking clear, move on! Do not focus on things you cannot change.