A man can either speak up or go unheard and remain unknown. In all my life, I have never seen an invisible man sell another human being a car. That’s for the fairy tales.

Sure technology has changed with email, text message, phone and more, but the root of it all hasn’t. I’m talking about one thing: Communication.

But You Suck At Communication:

Tough luck, it’s going to take time to master. Aside from taking private therapeutic sessions, here’s a few things that actually work:

1. Go anywhere in public, such as a local park and bring a notebook/pen with you. Take a seat somewhere and write down everything you see. The color of the leaves, a peculiar piece of clothing someone wore, the type of dogs passing by; in other words, anything that catches your attention.

At the end of the day your hand will be sore from all the writing. When you look at the pages and pages of notes you wrote, simply stop for a moment. Consider the millions of things you could have easily talked about with virtually anyone.

Suddenly, striking up a conversation doesn’t seem so difficult. The more you practice this, the more you end up noticing what’s really around you, naturally and instinctively.

2. Surround yourself with people, even if it’s a small social group. Go to local meets up, where you can get involved in everything from cooking classes to karate. The goal here is to get comfortable with making new introductions and meeting new faces.

3. Go to the bar with a group of friends. The last person to introduce themselves to a woman pays the entire bill. Within time you’ll either succumb to positive peer pressure or become one of the first because you’re going broke.

4. Review these top 75 best questions to ask a girl you like. Bring them into conversations whether in person, over the phone or through text, you’ll be amazed with the results.