Back when I was a Twilight-loving, never-been-kissed suburban tween, I used to covet my best friend’s collection of “grown up” perfume.

Crowning the mantle of her white bedroom vanity like professional sports trophies, the bottles were elegantly displayed, featuring exotic names and scents like “Victoria Beckham” and “White Diamond.” (Justin Bieber’s “Girlfriend” was included as well, but I’d call it an exception to the general classiness of the stock.)

Without uncapping the perfumes, I already sensed their superiority over the run-of-the-mill Bath & Body Works body mists that topped my Christmas wish lists.

“I want to find my signature scent,” my friend would say, dismissing her treasures with the flick of a perfectly manicured pinky. “But until then, this will do.”

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Nowadays, the concept of having a signature scent is nearly obsolete. In a world of countless Tinder matches and hustling opportunities, it’s hard to commit to anything, let alone handpick the one smell that’s going to define you for the rest of your life.

I say it’s worth a try. Friends, here’s how to choose a perfume, in a few easy steps.

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Learn what scent category you’re attracted to.

According to Scentbird, there are six basic fragrance categories: woody, citrus, floral, fruity, spicy/oriental, aquatic, and gourmand.

Those of you who are attracted to the smell of pine cones and sandalwood may lean towards woody scents. Fans of citrus and fruity notes, on the other hand, will prefer a dash of freshness. Floral fragrances are generally romantic and feminine while spicy/oriental scents are instantly sexy. Beach lovers tend to go for aquatic scents, and the gourmand category is unquestionably sweet. (Some say too sweet, so spray it on lightly if it is your fragrance of choice!)