Wider rings require a larger size so allow .25 or .5 extra sizing. Make sure you account for knuckle size.

If she is between two sizes, go for the larger size. For best results, take the measurement in millimeters.

Final Thoughts: You’ve Got This!

We hope you haven’t become too alarmed by all the decisions you need to make. You’ve got this! Just take you time, stick to your budget and be open to all the interesting options you have.

The good thing is, you have plenty of choices. We think buying an engagement ring online is a good way to go, especially if you buy from James Allen, because you can design a ring to your (and her) exact taste and specifications.

From choosing the right diamond or colored gemstone, to the setting, design, cut of the stone or stones to the sizing – they make it easy and much more affordable than your typical high street jeweler.

So, should you surprise her with an engagement ring you choose – or ask outright what she wants? The element of surprise is still the romantic way to go.

Polls consistently show that most women want a surprise proposal. It is what she will remember and cherish all her life, and it’s also a great way for you to show off your creative, romantic side and how smart you are to find a ring she adores.

If you’ve done your homework and you know her style, getting down on one knee with the perfect engagement ring in hand will blow her mind, even if she’s been suspicious. She’ll absolutely love it!

A final word of advice; don’t go broke buying a ring you can’t afford. It’s not a good way to start a marriage and in the long run, she won’t appreciate it when you both have to skimp on something else.

Congratulations again!