“In terms of body image, any shift can be related to the consumer culture of today,” says Proni, who lectures at Kingston University, London. “The commodification of our bodies – the cultural emphasis on youthfulness, desire and pleasure – this doesn’t just apply to men, the media images for all of us are now woven into the fabric of our daily life. And unfortunately, this notion that we are all responsible for ourselves can lead to depression, confusion and anxiety in men. Instead of finding ourselves, we lose ourselves.”
Indeed, in the quest for validation and approval, it seems that many more men are going under the knife – presumably, in a bid to provide the world with the fantasy version of their masculine selves they would urge you, and probably themselves, to buy into.
“I’ve always had a high proportion of male patients in my practice,” says cosmetic surgeon Dr Jonquille Chantrey. “But there are definitely more men attending now than ever before. Their top reason for coming is to ‘look less tired’, but lots of them are also interested in non-surgical body contouring procedures to get rid of stubborn fat that won’t shift, even with their gruelling workout regimes.
“The pressures to look a certain way have been there for some time in terms of body appearance and grooming, but it’s quickly transgressing into face and health – most of the men we treat work hard to keep up their fitness, which can ironically make them look gaunt and haggard.”
“Modern men definitely feel pressure to be looked at and ‘liked’,” continues Simpson. “But that’s because we live in a hyper-visual, social media culture. I don’t think this is necessarily bad. It’s good that men no longer look, and women are no longer simply looked at. Men have discovered the desire to be desired – which was always at the heart of metrosexuality. It’s no longer something just for gays and girls.”
RELATED BEST 10 ON AMAZON:
IMAGE | TITLE | TRENDS | SEE MORE |
| Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity | 2999.2 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Resisting Peer Pressure for Teens: Advice on Drugs, School, Sex, and Fitting In (YC Teen's Advice from Teens Like You) | 7 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Currently Unsupervised Novelty Graphic Sarcastic Mens Very Funny T Shirt | 27495 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Stop Overthinking: 23 Techniques to Relieve Stress, Stop Negative Spirals, Declutter Your Mind, and Focus on the Present (... | 24489 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| When This Virus is Over 2021 Graphic Novelty Sarcastic Funny T Shirt | 22392 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Garlique Garlic Extract Supplement, Healthy Blood Pressure Formula, Odorless & Vegan, 60 Caplets | 22185 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Smarter LifeStyle Elegant Titanium Magnetic Therapy Bracelet for Men And Women, Pain Relief for Arthritis and Carpal Tunne... | 19954.2 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Meta Quest 2 — Advanced All-In-One Virtual Reality Headset — 128 GB | 352858 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Meta Quest 2 — Advanced All-In-One Virtual Reality Headset — 128 GB | 352858 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Currently Unsupervised Novelty Graphic Sarcastic Mens Very Funny T Shirt | 27495 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Stop Overthinking: 23 Techniques to Relieve Stress, Stop Negative Spirals, Declutter Your Mind, and Focus on the Present (... | 24489 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| When This Virus is Over 2021 Graphic Novelty Sarcastic Funny T Shirt | 22392 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Garlique Garlic Extract Supplement, Healthy Blood Pressure Formula, Odorless & Vegan, 60 Caplets | 22185 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Smarter LifeStyle Elegant Titanium Magnetic Therapy Bracelet for Men And Women, Pain Relief for Arthritis and Carpal Tunne... | 19954.2 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| My Opinion Offended You Adult Humor Novelty Sarcasm Witty Mens Funny T Shirt | 17756.6 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression | 4830 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity | 2999.2 | MORE VIEW |
---|
| Resisting Peer Pressure for Teens: Advice on Drugs, School, Sex, and Fitting In (YC Teen's Advice from Teens Like You) | 7 | MORE VIEW |
Tips: "Amazon, Amazon Prime, the Amazon logo and Amazon Prime logo are trademarks of Amazon.com, Inc. or its affiliates". AS AN AMAZON ASSOCIATE, WE EARN AFFILIATE COMMISSIONS FROM QUALIFYING PURCHASES.