Stop Thinking She is Flawless

She’s not. No one is!

She’s as human and imperfect, just like you and every other person. If you think of a girl as impenetrable, surreal, and almost non-human, there’s literally no way for you to find a meeting point where you can have something in common to talk about.

I mean, what would a frail, mere mortal say to an unaffected fairy-queen to hold her interest? Nothing, right?

Give up that idea because here’s the truth: you are both humans. And, no matter how slim, there’s a chance that the two of you can explore a potential connection, whether it is for a short while or something that lasts for a long time.

Don’t Take Questionable Advice

“Say something, just anything random.”

“Use a pick-up line.”

“Bring up your favorite TV show.”

Wait, what?

These are creepy pieces of advice, and you should pay no attention to them whatsoever!

Solid conversation starters with a girl you admire have nothing to do with these outdated prospects. For example, what do you do next when your well-memorized pick-up line fails to work on her? Walk away with your tails between your legs?

Okay, what if she gives you attention, what next? Your lines are finished, and so is the conversation! At the risk of sounding like a broken record, I’ll say it again: you don’t need pick-up lines!

Avoid Standard Questions (the Interview Mode)

Do you know the fastest way to kill the little spark of interest a lady might have for you? Ask her standard questions!

Here’s how to jeopardize your chances.

Start with something as uninteresting as, “Where are you from?” and follow it up with, “What do you do?”

Pretty soon, she’ll start to feel as if she’s in a job interview!

These questions are not only painfully boring, but they are also not genuine. You don’t really want to know where she’s from and what she does or does not do. At least, those are not the things on the top of your mind at first, so why bring them up first?