My first birthday away at college was difficult — at least, at first. I’m close with my family, so I always celebrate my birthday with them. Unfortunately, my birthday is close enough to Thanksgiving that with my school schedule, it’s not possible for me to celebrate with them on the actual day. 

At first, I was nervous about the prospect of spending my birthday alone. As it turns out, however, it really wasn’t that bad. (In fact, my mother had a dozen cupcakes sent to my dorm and I got to celebrate twice when I saw my family again.) I now understand that there’s an art to spending one’s birthday alone — and I’m here to pass on my tips to you.

Many of us will spend our birthdays at college, away from our families, but that doesn’t mean your special day has to be lonely. In fact, celebrating alone can be a way to make yourself feel special because your day is about celebrating you, and that can be done any way you like. 

Below are my top 7 ways to make your birthday special when you are celebrating alone. 

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1.  Treat Yourself to Something Sweet (or Savory!) 

Usually when it’s someone’s birthday, ice cream and cake are on the menu, but you might not want to buy a whole cake for yourself. (Though more props to you if you do!) Instead, why not treat yourself by making yourself a nice meal, buying your favorite drink, or treating yourself to a nice pastry? 

If you enjoy cooking, then making yourself a meal at college feels very indulgent, especially if you have a meal plan. Similarly, going out and buying a special meal or treat if you don’t do so often can go a long way to making your day that much more enjoyable.